And I'm here to let you in on a secret. Are you sitting down? Here we go!  Neither your past nor your present disqualifies you in God's eyes. He doesn't look at you through the lens of shame, failure, or regret. He sees you through the lens of grace, love, and purpose. Here's the part that I hope frees you today-you have been and ALWAYS will be His daughter. 

Have you ever heard the saying God doesn't call the qualified; He qualifies the called? You don't have to have it all together, and you don't have to wait until you "clean" yourself or your life up. COME AS YOU ARE! He isn't looking for perfection He is simply looking for your yes.

Everything you have been through He can and wants to use for His glory. Your struggles and scars are part of your story and I'm here to tell you that God's pen is still moving. Even when the things we go through don't make sense we can trust that He knows what's best for us. I've learned that we aren't just supposed to go through things in life; we are meant to GROW through them. And if we keep everything we've learned to ourselves, only we get better. So, with God's help, I've chosen to share my story and struggles to glorify Him, and hopefully that will inspire you to trust Him with your life too.

My mission is to help you uncover your pain, so that God can bring healing and guide you to discover your true potential. Everything that I create is meant to encourage and empower you to start the journey of becoming all that God created you to be- which is fully alive, fully loved, and fully walking in your divine purpose. I know I know you're sitting there thinking "that sounds great Becky, but what exactly does all this mean." Don't stress girl, I got you on that part too!

Uncovering your pain is like peeling an onion-each layer can reveal any emotional baggage you're carrying, toxic emotions hindering your growth, emotional wounds that are seeping, or unhealthy thought patterns you might have on replay. And although each layer may bring tears to your eyes eventually those same tears will bring healing to your life. And let's not forget the importance of conducting an inspection of your heart during this phase. Because while a hardened heart protects, it also imprisons. So, the harsh reality is that if you skip over identifying and addressing your hidden issues those will be the very things that end up blocking you from becoming the best version of yourself.

Discovering your potential is a journey to self, and it's not a one-time moment. It's sorta like a lifelong scavenger hunt, and you're the prize waiting to be discovered. You are simply in the process of finding the incredible person you've always been. The YOU that you didn't even know existed. The person that was hiding under your pain all along! Your God-given potential is something that He reveals to you step by step, season by season, challenge by challenge- and everything is a clue to discovering the amazing you. While this part can be fun it's also hard work and it will take your honesty, patience, and courage. But with every piece of your potential that you uncover you are building a stronger and more clear picture of who God created you to be.

The second part of this journey sounds way more exciting than the first, huh? Trust me, I have been right where you are and I know it's scary and overwhelming just thinking of revisiting your past. Especially when it involves pain, trauma, or even regret. But let me open your beautiful eyes with a little truth in this moment. What you don't feel you will NEVER heal, and you deserve better than settling in your pain and living a less than your best kind of life. 

Just remember it's not about reliving everything at once, but rather gently approaching it one thing at a time. Figure out what your biggest hindrance is and focus on that first. YOUR PAIN YOUR PACE.

I know the pain may be loud right now, but God's voice has the power to heal wounds no one else can see. So, tune out the lies of your past, other people, and even the devil and lean into what He says about you. Never forget that you are chosen, loved, redeemed, and MORE THAN ENOUGH. And that you are a daughter of a KING so you are strong and capable of overcoming anything that you set your mind too.

Healing is hard, but staying stuck in pain, fear, or cycles that limit you is harder in the long run. I believe in YOU and so does our heavenly father.